We always wonder that when we miss someone, is it because we love that person, we like that person or maybe it’s just an infatuation? We keep on fighting with ourselves that what’s the reason for missing that person? Some time we also miss people we hate. Many times we also miss people we fight all the time but when they are not around.
It is really difficult to say how we miss someone we love. Missing Someone is a physical and emotional pain. It is really difficult for us to get the person out of our thought process. Even if we try to do it, that makes us to remember more of them and not to settle or allow us to cool down.
Over a period of time, we feel that we will not miss them, but in real, we miss them each and every second and the thought process changes from one to another due to the situation changes, but we never forget the one we love deeply. No matter how hard we try, we cannot erase them out of our heart and thoughts. It is not only the thought what makes us to feel dejected, but the emptiness created by them stays as it is. There is a vacuum without them. when the thought of the emptiness comes, we think more of that person and the person never leaves us and it becomes a routine in our life to think and feel for the vacuum created by them and for allowing them to create the emptiness in our life.
Any Emptiness with pain created by the one whom we love can be healed only 50% and it never gets healed without them.
Whether the person whom we miss is a child, parent, close friend, or romantic involvement, the feeling is more or less the same. It feels like a part of you has been ripped from the core and it drains all of your energy.
Some say to focus on the bad times with this person, their faults, and the times they hurt you. The only problem with that is that if you truly cared about the person you are missing, recalling the bad times will only make you miss them more, because you miss the whole person, both good and bad.
As we get older, the intense feeling of missing someone will become more and more. When we are young, relationships end that you thought were the most important thing in your life and sooner we get accustomed with the new one, even though the memories still remains. But with age, the memories gets more closer to heart. As we get older, grandparents, parents, friends, and other significant people in your life will pass away. And it never gets easier.
Whatever may be the reason, I would say it’s a very nice feeling to miss someone. You keep on thinking about that person whole day and night or if it’s worst you might start imagining him/her near you. I really don’t agree that missing someone we love is one of the worst feeling, we miss because we love them more and the thoughts of them is not a pleasure when they are not around us, but for sure it is a lovely sweet pain. It is for you SAD 🙂