Lessons Learnt – Reason-Season-Lifetime

There comes a point in your life when you realize who really matters, who never did, and who always will.

Sometimes people come into your life & you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or help you figure out who you are & or who you want to become You never know who these people may be could be your roommate, neighbor, professor, long lost friend, lover, or even a complete stranger and these people affect your life in some profound way.

“Don’t cry because it’s over. Smile because it happened.”

Riya told me that you can write a book, novel or even as an epic about your lost love, but I will not consider that kind of person in my life for any reason. If there is little love, she would have called you or messaged you or mailed you as she will know that you will be feeling her absence.

I don’t know how a human can be like this? I replied her that she will think of me, if you feel so, then she would have tried to communicate with you. Don’t cheat yourself like this and it is more than 2 years and please accept that it doesn’t exist. Accept that someone played with your feelings. Accept that you are a victim, accept that you lost it, and accept that you are being cheated. Accept that it is not going to come back; Accept that days you think about her is waste of your time.

I don’t know, you are not sleeping or breathing without her thoughts, but if it is real love, she woudl have tried to communicate. even my friends asked, you are posting so many contents on her, do you think she will read all these? I said yes, she will, does she replied to any of it? I said no. Then how do you say that she is reading it.  That is faith. Almost everyone is fed-up with me with the way things are going in the last two years. I have to keep a full stop but I don’t know why? and How? why should I keep a full stop?

Secret of happiness is in admitting the fact that there are few things which can’t be repaired, few things lost can’t be regained, few enter life just to give a thought how the feeling will be, and few leave you with reasons & without reasons. Nothing is going to stop and life will go on. Their entry in your life to define the purpose of a life and they are not destined to travel with you or their presence in your life might lead to a downfall.

Forgive yourself and forgive her also so as you can find peace with those who are around you.

If someone is so arrogant, then their existence doesn’t make difference. I will not say you forget it, but at least don’t lose the real ones.

There are some people who come in our life to improve us in all the phases of life. We have to consider and hold them as lifetime people. Rest all comes as a reason or season.

Another friend shared this to me saying that let this be the last post about her.

Perhaps this poem will shed some light on things for you:

Reason, Season, or Lifetime

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you figure out which one it is,
you will know what to do for each person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON,
it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty;
to provide you with guidance and support;
to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend, and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.

Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON,
because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it. It is real. But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons;
things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person,
and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.


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