Archive | March 2014

Its all about us

This is all about the story of my love story but to begin with my love stories, I thought I need to give a brief….

What is most beautiful for me is ‘LOVE’. Love is beautiful, love is kindness, love is blindness as we go through my few articles, you will come to know how I learned love is blindness also.

What I wish to say as part of the story Love?

My motto of Love is ‘spread love everywhere you go’ – I love to love others. Main reason for this, show them how you want them to treat you. I want people around me to treat me with love and care. I try to show the utmost care for all of them, whether it is a stranger or even those who consider me as an enemy or a competitive person.

First of all show love in your own house, Give the gift of love to your children, to your wife or husband, to a next door neighbor… Let the little ones at home know the meaning of life lies in the love and care not in the material things.
Let anyone ever come to you leave you better or happier with the way you share the love and care to them. Be the living expression of kindness; kindness in your face, kindness in your eyes, kindness in your smile; kindness in your warm greeting.

The way things revolve around us, I am worried that this world will make love also as one of the material things which can be bought with money.

What is so great in Love?

Love doesn’t mean that I have to say everyone I meet as I love you and I don’t say it also. When I say, then it means, whatever they do, I will love them till my end of my life. Without saying love, you can share love to the stranger, your neighbors, your colleagues etc., I know for sure there are so many calling me as sister and I don’t even call them as my brothers with words but I consider them as my brothers for sure.
I take little longer time to fall in relationship but it takes just a second for a stranger to become as my friend with a small smile. This small smile can tell the opposite person, never lose hope, you never know what the next minute is going to bring, enjoy this moment, cherish and smile back to make someone’s life beautiful.

Share your love by throwing a smile which can in return a smile 99% of the time it will return a smile to you, one or two cases it might feel wherein the other person is totally out of this world and dwelling in her/his own problems.

When you share a smile to a heart which is struggling, your smile can give them a chance to live their life in a beautiful way. It is just a way to greet someone with a smile but it has a lot to say you have lot more to come and you are stronger enough to handle it, don’t worry. It doesn’t not matter who has broken a heart, or hurt or done something wrong but your smile can bring their smile back.

When I say about smile, just don’t think of the gadgets smiles, think of a smile from a baby, think from a little cute little girl or a boy playing in dirty sand and giving a smile, a beautiful lady with a smile which makes her more beautiful. A dimple on a face of a man.. all these smiles are like the rain in the desert or rain during a sunny day which will bring in a peace, serenity, silence and happiness in the heart.

I am not saying that you should not get the other feelings of anger, hatred etc., Be polite in showing the anger also, try to explain the reason you are anger.

We believe that people (human) were created by god and rest of the world was created for the sake of this human to cherish and to take care of it for the coming generation.
People were created to be loved,
Things were created to be used.
Now, the reason why the world is in such chaos
is because, things are being loved,
and people are being used for the things.

If we cannot love the fellow human, then how can we love the nature, animals and other living beings? Often we say that world revolves in love, but what do we love?

Sorry-Please forgive me

I saw a greeting card which was sent to me almost after 15 months. It was a sorry card and card is shared below.

Sorry- Nadi

To be honest, when I received the card, I was shocked because I never expected such a card from the sender, even though we had some misunderstandings and some communication gap. I never expected such a card from the sender

When I opened it , I was feeling like I was in heaven, even though I don’t know for what I received the card. I asked the sender, for what you have sent this, there was no response, and I told that whatever be the reason, I can forgive you even without knowing it. One reason to say that was, sender is not of a person who will feel for others or for her own mistakes. Since the card was from the sender, I felt I can forgive without knowing the reason.

I have seen the same card 8 months back also; at that time also I felt the same that I can forgive her. But slightly in a different manner, but at that time, I know the reason why that card was sent to me, because of her conversation/back biting with another friend. I think maybe sender would have felt bad for back biting and she would have sent the card. When sender sent the card, neither I was aware nor did she try to convey that to me. But she felt guilty and sent that card. I was happy at that time also. Sender is not of a person who will feel bad for others or for sender’s own mistake.

When I saw the card today, somewhat my mind questioned me in a different way, whether the sender really felt for the action or is it just to get rid from the god’s angle. Was it sent to me, just to get the forgiveness from me to clear the dirt? Or was it really from the heart?

If it was from the heart, the sender could have told me the reason and there is no reason to hide when I said that I can forgive any sort of her activities and I have told the sender you can do anything with me, that’s why played me as a victim of love.

Why I am posting this, with the time, our pain will heal away, is it true? I have heard with many saying that even this will pass away, if so why do we have the pain?

I used to think that it will not heal but we will try to live with that. That is what happened with me also, I started to live with pain. Now I smile, I dance, I sing, I pray, I work but hiding my pain and everyone feels that I am recovered and I don’t have any wound or scar in my heart, but nobody knows that I still have the pain and that too with the same effect.

The more I dwell with this pain, the scenarios will change and if I see this card after one more year, what will be my attitude and mindset, god only knows….. only in you I trust

At this time of sharing this thought, one of my friend shared a thought provoking video with me, which was saying about the humbleness, when someone has a beautiful face, but with an arrogant attitude, think that there is someone more beautiful than you and more humble…

To conclude, whatever be your attitude, I will be same and I have forgiven you for what you have done but I am unable to forgive myself for the punishment what I am getting. Without doing any harm, am getting punishment is horrible in life.

 

 

I know saying sorry won’t be enough…

But I really mean it…

Please forgive me!

Please forgive me! For loving you so deeply, still loving and living in your thoughts.