I have not heard from many women saying that all men are all the same!
Well…men are not all the same at all. In fact women are much more similar to each other than men are.
All Men are Men – this means all men are pigs and when I heard this word from her, I felt it was out of care but I never felt that I can write up an article with this sentence.
What a situation, it was told by her to me, when someone whom I trust very much uttered some stupid words and I am sure that he will say that he said it in a flow and nothing to harm or nothing from heart.
When I shared this to my family(My UAE family), all of them felt bad and one of my friend told, he should not have used it to you. I was so surprised to hear those words from that gentleman. He is not of that kind of person to share feelings for others.
My beauty of life, said the above words that all men are men madam and she said it so cool and those words were so beautiful for me when it was from her.
These words were from her mouth so it is still beautiful, but the impact of words is not so great. I have taken these words because I love all her words and I want to give up all her words as articles.
Women attract men through their physical appearance. So when a man notices an attractive woman, his slayer nature automatically comes out of him and he thinks “I want a sexual relationship with her”. Of course they will not think with all women, if so they have psychological disorder.
Thus, you will most likely receive the same types of attitudes from most men, when he is in front of an attractive woman. He desires to be with a beautiful woman. If a lady is not good-looking, then these guys will tell them as friends only not as girl-friend.
If a woman meets a guy and she will not decide to have sex with him immediately even if he is very handsome, she will look in for the personality type what is looking in him (Confident, courageous, caring, funny, attentive and she will check whether the guy is a playboy or not.
Whereas a guy will not look for her personality type and he will stick for physical appearance if she is not of his personality type, he will still feel to have sex with her because of her physical appearance. These qualities are almost similar in men and women in identifying the needs with reasons.So the only reason why most men seem the same, is because they all respond the same to physical appearance. But the moment when a man likes a woman for her personality, he becomes totally different to all other men.
I have to say that all my friends know me here for my personality not as a female or woman.
I am not going to write about guys now and it is all about women. I did not know that all men are men means that all men are pigs. How can we say that all men are men?
Especially, I can’t say that all men are men because my circle is filled only with men and I have come across only good people and here and there one or two bad guys or pigs would have tried to be part of my life. But I have to say that they will be out within 1 such bad incident or the way they use their words will certainly make sure them to be out of my friendship circle.
I am a female chauvinist. I’m not going to insult or attack women. Instead, I want people to better understand that men and women are more alike than they think when it comes to sex and sins of the flesh.
When there is a need for sex, a man needs a woman and vice versa, when there is a need for the sex for a woman, she needs a man to get it satisfied.
If I can talk about bad about a guy with reference to the act of a pig, then I have to say that they can’t behave like that without a woman’s involvement. It greatly depends on how women behave in the exact way that they accuse only men of behaving: like pigs.
When I was discussing something about the a lady with a best friend of mine, she was accusing the guy to great extent and she said no harm with the lady. She is a great supporter of female and she wanted to say that this female has not done any harm other than keeping silence.
Especially it is easy for the guys to attract a female who is married, who has tasted the feeling of sex and who survives alone (divorced, separated, widows or even those who live due to situation factors).
Whereas in my eyes, if something goes wrong then woman is the culprit, I don’t feel that a guy has done something great or he tried to put so much effort to bring her close to him. It is easy for any guy to bring in a lady very close to him only when the lady allows him to do it.
It is a growing consensus in women that “All men are pigs.” Every day women complain about how men are unfaithful, lying, dirty-minded pigs, whose major blood flow spends most of its time at the wrong part of their bodies. Obviously if you dress half naked, then their eyes will go around your parts of the body. If you cover full and go with a fake smile, it is giving the guy a right to scan you directly.
When a lady allows someone to enter into her private subject you are allowing someone to touch your private parts. Then it is not the mistake of the guy and you can’t blame that the guy is a pig. A guy knows how to handle a female whether she is married or single and they are meant to be said that they can make a women weaker section. If you allow them to make you weak and then you should not cry for it.
Above all women wants that someone should like them, adore them and they need that piece of appreciation every now and then. When the one who has to adore her all the day and night is not doing it or when it is not there for the female, then they expect it to get it from others.
The Great Fact is that there are just as many deceiving and unfaithful men out there as there are because of these unfaithful women. So why it is that only the men have earned such a bad reputation and the women still enjoys the flavor of the womanhood? The answer lies in the difference between how men and women communicate with one another.
It is a known fact that women are natural communicators and we love to express our feelings openly and very often. When it comes to proclaiming their sentiments, women more than men and they are the first to sit on the panel of a talk show, or complain to their girlfriends about their failed or unhappy relationships. They will share all their good and bad with their close friends circle and try to get the support from the other women.
It is totally opposite in men. Men are not as communicative as women, and tend to suppress their emotions a lot more than their female counterparts. They will not try to disclose even to their colleagues or good friends to maintain their dignity. It is really gives them a great reputation and they don’t always communicate the problems of their relationships. Obviously you’re going to hear more from women side of the story than men.
The fact remains that just as many women engaging in extramarital affairs as do men. The only difference is that men don’t talk about their women being unfaithful. Extramarital affairs can’t happen to a guy without a woman’s involvement.
In today’s world, we can’t accuse for any sin that it is to be held responsible by a man when it is related to sex and related to flesh. In olden days, the awareness was not there and the women were not literate and they were not given any kind of freedom to express their feelings.
There was a time when a woman’s sexual desires were held hostage by her own body and society’s attack. Women were suppressed and were asked to live with conditions. That is to say that the consequences of being philandering were more severe than they are today.
In the olden days, a woman held the burden of caring for a child if she became pregnant, or risked ruining her reputation. Women were not having the luxury of abortion clinics or birth control. So once they got knocked up, that was it. There was no more hiding and for this reason women kept their legs crossed and it is due to consequences rather than moral convictions.
Nowadays, women have more scope when it comes to sexual freedom. What with birth control and the ability to support them, women’s independence has been awakened and they take this freedom is given for them to sleep with anyone. It is good that at one time kept them like slaves from giving in to their sexual desires but not spoiling other female’s life.
In ancient time, without freedom, when women were at home inside the four walls, what they know is to care for their husbands, child and to keep the home clean and to think about her man and family. What was she getting from the husband is to satisfy the needs of his physical needs. Even it was not like that to satisfy her needs, it was for the need of the guy.
But today the freedom has given to the female to get her needs satisfied through anyone and how can we say that all men are men and are all women are saints?
The society has not become a full of guys and we still believe in marriage and we live one for one conspiracy.
As women were suppressed to great extent in olden days, now the social reform has come and it is not against men but it is against the women. When a guy indulge in an extra marital affair with a woman who is single or married, then it is against the woman who is already exists in the guy’s life and she is ready to spoil that woman’s life for her sexual needs.
The number of women who have multiple partners or commit adultery has skyrocketed over the years. Men cheat and sleep around, yes, but this is what gave women the justification to call men as pigs. But now that they have caught up to us on the “spread your love” scale, they are no longer entitled to throw this in men faces alone, it has to be said for the women as well.
Earlier we were having a group of females as prostitutes and I feel that there is no such group now a day as everyone is ready to flirt, talk, and sleep with as many guys as they want. Whether it is for money or for pleasure this is also called as prostitution only.
I used to say that how a woman can become a prostitute without an involvement of a man, when the world used to accuse the prostitutes as bad woman or not to be called in the so called society as a dignified woman.
A prostitute is the one who kills her feelings and sells her body only for the sake of money which is far far better than the current happenings or the freedom of women. These women kill others feelings for their sexual needs and tries to kill many families by having an extra marital affair. Whether it is knowingly or unknowingly it is a sin and the curses of the other woman will make them to suffer like anything.
It is a known fact that men were having extra marital affairs since ages and how is it without females and they know the sufferings of other woman. How can they do it? But how is it only a guy is responsible for extra marital affairs?
In all times in the world men need sex and women need money, men has money and women has physical attraction and to have the pleasure of money, they are ready to give the pleasure of sex to men. To acquire the wealth of the men, they are ready to give up everything including their name, fame & family.
Please before entering into the extra marital affair think about your spouse & kids, think about your second partner’s spouse and kids which can make you to feel that what you are going to do is a sin and you might not let the other person enter into your life.
Can you feel happy when your spouse says to some girl as baby, sweet heart, and darling how are you?Say to yourself that I love my spouse and I love to give them their dignity. They deserve the dignity through me. It is not only love, care but also the trust and respect what they have for you is what they expect from you.
If you said that all men are men means pigs, can I say that all women like you are pigs?