Archive | December 2012

Happy New Year – 2013

I used to wish one and all in a normal way, but this year, I have given some special care and thought let me create some new year cards with the same kind of wishes but for some special people individually… Dedicated to all my friends and family. Wishing you all a very HAPPY NEW YEAR 🙂


The below given wishes is for someone special who does’nt know the meaning of wishes. Neither she knows to wish nor she knows to accept the wishes…. Laziest person … Please plan to wish all your loved ones and try to make them happy with your fake words…..Slide148


The above wishes is for a someone special to have twins in this new year! ! ! 

The below wishes is for my nice friend, who is with me as “a friend in need is a friend indeed”. 


To my Yazhini’s Fans and for my Yazhini Cute Little Star 


The Below is for a beautiful angel of my life


The below given is for all the good hearts


To my All my Friends & Family




Slide158 Slide159

To the Sweeties of my life


Silent listeners and to the sweet friends who love me, listen to me, wish me, feel for me, cry with me, smile with me – For all the wonderful hearts


For the childish, innocent and beautiful hearts


To the wonderful hearts from all the religions


To all my colleagues and friends from facebook, Gtalk, PMI group….


To All Others



Only wish from my side for the year 2013….Slide145


Above and Below wishes is for the cutest of my life…



Lost Love

The Hardest Test God Will Ever Give You is to LOVE Someone Even When They Don’t Deserve It.


Don’t ever under-estimate others feelings, those who give more to someone means, they know the exactly how it feels to have nothing. The way you handled me, I can’t forgive myself for allowing you to do it.

I just followed my heart saying that “If someone is responsible for your smile, please, be responsible for their heart! ! !”


I never expected that the same person will be responsible for so much tears. Now my smile is gone and I have only tears because of you and I hate people who make me to shed tears. Before I curse you, I wish to let you out and throw you as you have done it.

I think it is very easy for you to throw anyone to dustbin but it is very hard for me to do so. When we can’t forget our enemies, how can we forget someone we still love? Anyways you neither deserve to be loved nor do I deserve to get tears because of you.

When my love is giving pain for me, I am ready to throw it for the sake of others because I know people around me consider me and my love as precious and almost it is like love of god to have such people around me.

Initially I felt you as a blessing, but now I feel that god has cursed me or given this pain to know that these kind of human’s also exist in this world and I have to be careful in moving ahead… I should not fall for fake people.

I have to thank you a lot for giving the wonderful feeling of the world. In the same time, I have to curse you for giving the most pain in my life time. I have come across so many painful chapters in my life, but I don’t remember any of it now because the pain what I am going through is above all. Even then I can’t curse you because my love for you is real and true as well.

I used to be very careful, but somehow it happened. There is a proverb  “Even an elephant can skid, but no one knows that it is very difficult for an elephant to get up when it skids. That’s what happened with me in my love.


I don’t need to prove it to you by holding you in my memories. You will not be in my life forever. I lost to you and I am accepting this and coming out of all the attachments.

Last few days I was thinking that god wanted me to have some kind of attachment and was thinking deeply also to get settled in life, but I realized that god has given this pain to know what is attachment and all my prayers to get a detached life was the answer from him.

He has made me to get myself ready for the detached life from everyone. So far I have not taken anyone so close to heart and I used to consider everyone as a stranger only and I do show the all my love but God has shown me a different path through you.


In 37 years, I have not felt bad or regret for anything in my life. But for the first time, I regret  and really feel sorry for loving a wrong person and thinking that you are the right person to be in that place. I have done a sin and god wanted me to repent for it, feel for it, and to feel ashamed of it. You entered my life just to make me or to feel for my sin and to repent for it.

Whenever I used to get hurt, I used to feel that if my daughter does what I will do and I have moved on with all the pain with a smile saying it is from MY SMILE. But for the first time, now I got an insight from god and he guided me differently saying that if it is your daughter she will not do this kind of cheap activities. She will be daughter of Love not a selfish person.

I don’t believe in holding someone in memories, but if there ever comes a day when we can’t be together by heart and mind… I will have you in my heart and be there forever without killing my peace.


Two of the hardest tests in life: The patience to wait for the right moment and the courage to accept that you’ve waited for nothing.


We will say that one door closed, another opens but we often look so long and so regretfully up on the closed-door, that we do not see the ones which open for us. It is high time for me before the other doors closes, let me grab myself and be with them forever.


Before you give the above feeling to me, let me leave out of the hell. Initial part of my life, I felt that letting go is the way to live the life. Later I felt that holding on is the way to live the life. But now I learned that life is a balance to holding on to the right people and letting go the wrong people.


It is not only my my funda of life, but I was like this and even I have lived in such a way that I don’t give others a room to make me happy and I don’t let down others when they try to make me happy.

I tried a lot to make you understand What I am, Who I am.. But every time I get hurt only and finally I decided to move on because, I can’t make you understand my value. You will not realize my worth as well till the time your selfishness exists in you.


Nothing is bad in relations because I take everything as lesson and I feel that nothing can stop me.


I learned a lot from your relationship. Yes I don’t need such relationship in my life. Thank you very much for it.

I have to accept my failure and move on. I do feel ashamed of myself but when we accept our failure, we learn to know what is success. It is painful to move ahead with a failure but if I keep dwelling then that is the real failure….

I am moving  ahead in search of my success…… because there are people waiting for my Love with their arms open….. I have to care those who love to be cared by me. I have to give my love who really needs it.

no-matter-busy-wil always find time


I have said, always free for you, that’s why you didn’t realize the value of me and my time invested for you…. Now it’s high time for me to show my real care to someone who needs it and deserves it.



Thank you – 2012

For giving valuable lessons, good friends, cheerful moments, failure activities, Successful milestones, joyful learning, painful moments, heart throbbing events, lovely people, valuable friends, heart breaking people, beautiful atmosphere, lovely kids, wonderful atmosphere, God Fearing moments, wonderful session, successful career, quick gains in money, loyal friends, trust worthy friends, unconditional love, over love, mad love, worst moments, loss of health, loss of wealth and loss of peace, loss of health, gain of new friends, Lost Love, defeated by love, lost energy, Happy moments, new born, loss of life, accidents, mental tortures, medication, meditation, for being lovely, for being in true love, accepting true love, allowing people to hurt me, forgiving, forgetting the lessons, for doing sin, time to play, time to have food, time to cheer, time to make people SMILE, for bringing smile in my face, for bring tears in my eyes.. For all the wonderful, blissful moments………………………….




A Special Care and Loving words for all of us on this new day 


May this Year of 2013 Bring

A year of Admiration & Adoration

A year of Blessings & Beauty

A year of Cute & Childish

A year of Discipline & Devotion

A year of Eminence & Elegance

A year of Faith & Fun

A year of Glee and Glow

A year of Health & Happiness

A year of Innocence & Identity

A year of Joy & Jocular

A year of Knowledge & Kindness

A year of Love♥ & Luck

A year of Magnanimous & Magical

A year of Noble and Neutral

A year of Opportunities & Options

A year of Perfection & Patience

A year of Quest & Qualification

A year of Richness & Radiance

A year of Smile & Style

A year of Talent & Trust

A year of Ultimate & Unconditional

A year of Valiant & Victory

A year of Wealth & Wisdom

A year of Youthful & Young

A year of Zeal


2012 in review

The stats helper monkeys prepared a 2012 annual report for this blog.

Here’s an excerpt:

600 people reached the top of Mt. Everest in 2012. This blog got about 11,000 views in 2012. If every person who reached the top of Mt. Everest viewed this blog, it would have taken 18 years to get that many views.

Click here to see the complete report.

With Love

Once again a mail from the same matrimonial profile, who made me to smile with his words and at last laughed like anything….

முல்லைக்கு தேராய்
ரோஜாவுக்கு முள்ளாய்
அழகிய தாமரைக்கு குளமாய்
மரம்கொத்திக்கு மரமாய்
மீன்கொத்திக்கு மீனாய்
மயில்க்கு மிளகாய் பழமாய்
முத்துக்கு சிப்பியாய்
வைரத்துக்கு பட்டையாய்
தங்கத்துக்கு சுரங்கமாய்
இப்படி எல்லாம் என் பெர்சிய பிரின்சஸ் க்கு எழுதி அனுப்ப ஆசை
ஆனா பெர்சிய மொழி தெரியாது
என் நண்பி உதவி பண்ண முடியுமா ! ! !
அப்பா என்ன கேள்விடா சாமி, ஏதோ எனக்கு உலகத்தில இருக்கிற பல பாஷைகள் தெரியும் மாதிரி….

Good Heart

All men are not bad 🙂
It’s not my own content, a content written by a matrimonial profile after a short chat with me… Thanks for your understanding and for being a good friend till date…..
முக்கனியின்  முழுசுவை என்பார்
முத்தமிழின் இனிமை  என்பார்
முழு நிலவின் அழகு என்பார்
இவை அனைத்தும் முநைதவை என்பேன்
நின் தேனிசை குரல்
நீயும் நானும் நெடுந்தூரம் என்றாலும்
நெஞ்சம் இடம் மாற நினைத்தாலும்
என் மனம்    எனையே குத்துகிறது
உன் உன்னத பண்பை ஆயிரம் தாய்மை என்பதா
அதற்கு அச்சாரம் தான் இப்போது நின் மனதில்
தோன்றும் எண்ணமோ
நின்னை கை பிடிக்கும் பாக்கியம் இல்லை என்றாலும்
கடைகோடியில் நின்று ரசிக்கும் உன் ரசிகன் நான் .
என்றும் அன்புடன்

Life – Past or Present or Future

Most of the happenings in our life happen without our knowledge and the way we think to live or the way we plan, we fail to live the life. There is a saying that we spend most of our time in planning our future and we fail to live in the present.

When I was thinking about my career growth, suddenly I got a feeling that I had a big fight with my head of the department to give my Transfer Certificate, I don’t want to complete my Diploma and his immediate question was why do you want to get your TC.. Now you don’t like this environment and you wanted to leave this course, what will you do after your marriage, if you don’t like the environment? I said I will live anywhere which gives me happiness and I will not take anything which makes me unhappy, I will throw it from my life.

Whatever I am studying is only for the worst case in my life to stand on my own leg. I am born to live happily and I don’t plan my life. I take it as it comes. Suddenly I recalled this now, I happened to meet a company’s CEO recently and he asked me what do you want to become in the next 5 years. I told him 10 years back I want to have an office in the same building but now I don’t have anything in my mind.

I told him that I don’t want to become an entrepreneur since I have my hands burnt experience. I told him I don’t have any plans and I don’t plan anything for tomorrow. I take life as it comes. Secret of my happiness is I don’t worry about tomorrow and I don’t think about past as well. I live in the current moment. Someone asked me to think of the past golden days but past is past; I can’t hold the yesterdays light and live in darkness my dear. Why should I think on the past golden days, just to hold you in memories? If I am dead, you can hold me in your memories, and do you want me to kill you and your thoughts in present so as I can hold it in memories?

I don’t think that I have to live long life. I used to think that whatever life I live, I have to make others happy and live happily. If I can make a person smile in a day and I mean that day is mine and I will feel very happy for that day given by god. To great extent I don’t allow others to make me shed tears and I keep myself with a smiling and happy face

Most of the time, I used to tell people that don’t dwell in past, don’t dream about future and live in present which is ours and neither we can go back to yesterday or tomorrow. Somehow I felt like we will dwell in past because there are some sentiments, personal heartbroken stories in everyone life and it is really tough to forget everything entirely.

Even though I avoid recalling the worst moments, I failed to recall the beautiful moments also. Unknowingly it will take me to the worst moments. Somehow my current environment makes me to smile but recalling the worst time of my life.

Life can’t be pleasant all the time, but I make even the difficult times as pleasant.  I anticipate the worst moment and get ready for it. Sometimes it is difficult to handle something which comes on its own, that time, I will struggle to handle it and main problem is I can’t take others help to handle my problems and there were some of my friends who helped me when I was down and sometimes my family has stood for me when I was down by friends.

What is life? Is it past, present and future or only living the current moment? Whatever it may be, for me living the current moment is life and I hate to look back my graph in both personal and professional life. I have that much pain in all phases of life. Still I will say I have got a steep growth in both the phases. All the difficulties have taught me how to fight back and bring back my smiles……..

Living in the Present is Life


Stochastic Probability Theory – Pregnant Deer Scenario

Consider this scenario: In a remote forest, a pregnant deer is about to give birth to a baby. It finds a remote grass field near by a river and slowly goes there thinking it would be safe. As she moves slowly, she gets labor pain…. at the same moment, dark clouds gather around that area and lightning starts a forest fire. Turning left she sees a hunter who is aiming an arrow from a distance. As she tries to move towards right, she spots a hungry lion approaching towards her.

Stochastic Probability Theory – Pregnant Deer Scenario
What can the pregnant deer do ….as she is already under labor pain ?

What do you think will happen ?
Will the deer survive ?
Will it give birth to a fawn ?
Will the fawn survive ? or
Will everything be burnt by the forest fire ?

That particular moment ?

Can the deer go left ? – Hunter’s arrow is pointing

Can she go right ? – Hungry male lion approaching

Can she move up ? – Forest fire

Can she move down ? – Fierce river

Answer: She does nothing. She just focuses on giving birth to a new LIFE.
The sequence of events that happens at that fraction of a second (moment) are as follows:
In a spur of MOMENT …a lightning strikes (already it is cloudy ) and blinds the eyes of the Hunter. At that MOMENT, he releases the arrow missing and zipping past the deer. At that MOMENT the arrow hits and injures the lion badly. At that MOMENT, it starts to rain heavily and puts out the forest fire. At that next MOMENT, the deer gives birth to a healthy fawn.
In our life, it’s our MOMENT of CHOICE and we all have to deal with such negative thoughts from all sides always. Some thoughts are so powerful they overpower us and makes us clueless. Let us not decide anything in a hurry. Let’s think of ourselves as the pregnant deer with the ultimate happy ending. Anything can happen in a MOMENT in this life. If you are religious, superstitious, atheist, agnostic… or whatever… you can attribute this MOMENT as divine intervention, faith, sudden luck, chance (serendipity), coincidence… or a simple ‘don’t know’. We all feel the same. But, whatever one may call it, I would see the priority of the deer in that given moment was to giving birth to a baby…. because LIFE IS PRECIOUS.
Hence, whether you are deer or a human, keep that faith and hope within you always.

Worth Good Reading

” An Interview With God “

Man : “What surprises you the most about mankind?”
God answered, “That they get bored of with childhood,
they rush to grow up, and then long to be children again.
That they they lose their health to make money and then lose
their money to restore their health. That by thinking anxiously
about the future, they forget the present, such that they live neither for the present nor the future. That they live as if they will never die, and then die as if they had never lived.”

Man :” Thank you for your time,” I said humbly.
“Is there anything else you would like your children to know?”
GOD smiled, and said… “Just know that I am here,Always.” Life is PRECIOUS, Live the current moment. We never know when is our last minute in this world.

Smile, make others smile. Live Happily and make others Happy. Give abundantly and you will get it back 100 folds.