Archive | July 2012


Loving without Fear 

Love is the most beautiful feeling and most painful feeling in most of our lives. We never know when it is beautiful and how suddenly it becomes so painful. It makes us crazy, mad and makes us to smile like anything and makes us to cry with a heart-broken pieces. It is common in every one of us that we hate what we love.

Sometimes we say we hate but heart will keep on loving it. Sometimes we think that what we love is unworthy of our love because it has let us down greatly in some way or another. It might be true that we’re in love with the wrong person, but it could also be true that we ourselves are not yet right to love that person. We feel like withdrawing all our love and give it to somewhere else that is more worthy to receive. What is the guarantee that we will not get the same pain from the other person?

The undesirable situations whatever we experience are meant to help us to discover ourselves and what is love and how to love? Loving unconditionally is what it really means.

Hate is an emotion that is meant to be used as a violent defense against any form of evil. Hate is not the opposite emotion of Love. It is the same love emotion, whereas we love ourselves more than the other person.

We have to know that Hate is a not a constructive force against anything and it is destructive towards you. When you feel hatred or anger, it just means that someone is doing something that hurts you. May be the other person is not trying to hurt you intentionally, may be because of over love, over possessiveness, over expectations, suspicious, jealousies you get the hurt.

Hate and Hurt are like two sides of the coins when you are in Love. It is unavoidable, if you don’t know how to handle the love towards others. When you love more, then it is a form of self-love that seeks to protect you. There is nothing wrong with the way you feel because your emotions serve as a feedback and motivating force to move towards that which is good in life.

Only you know about you and you should know that the other person might not love you as you love her/him. It is people way of accepting and reciprocating love is totally different. One might accept your love with a smile, one with a hug and one might not even smile.

It is only, when you understand what your emotions are telling you and the reason you feel that way which enables you to truly resolve everything in your inner world. Most of us dwell in our own inner world and we love the other person whom we love to be in our inner world without even knowing that we are in a different world. The other person will be having their own world and we never feel to enter the other person’s world. Our selfish mind will think only about the world what we have built along with the other person.

The reason why you feel hate and anger is because the person is doing something that hurts you. Your love for yourself revolts against such an act. We feel misunderstood, unappreciated or somehow mistreated in one way or another by the other person. Therefore we seek to rectify the wrong or undeserved suffering caused by that person.

Loving without fear is nothing but whether they love me or not, I will keep on loving you. Love is not a business, to say that only if you love me, I will love you. whether you love or not, I will love you forever is what love means. It is really difficult to practice but once we start practicing it, then we can win as many hearts.

When do you get the fear of love is when the love starts, we don’t feel the differences in the other person, as we like some qualities of the other person and we start developing a close feeling or we start admiring, adoring the other person for what they are. We try to attract the other person by compromising many things which we never used to do it.

Once we become close, then we realized that they will be on our track and we try to loosen our grip. some try to do this as a test of their love and some play with the other person’s feelings. It really takes a great courage to expose yourself and your thoughts, but expanding and sharing with a loving heart without selfless regards, and not disappearing through fear. This is the way that there can ever be a hope of  truly positive and powerful life.

Love is thriller when it is an excitement, enchantment &  when Expectation overflows in love then it is not a thriller but it is a Killer….



Love the Nature for our Future

I was in a mindset just to write about love which is the nature of the human-life. One of my friend suggest me to write about the NATURE (Atmosphere). Love comes with us as a natural feeling and for a change I want to focus the love out of the human love and wanted to love the nature.

Love the Nature for our future

 Unlike others, I will not say I am fond of nature and I love greenery etc., It is common in every human that we love the greenery and we never take any responsibility to make our environment green. As a responsible person of this universe, only thing I try to follow is to reduce the utilization of the natural resources and wanted my next generation to enjoy the benefits provided by the nature.

Global warming is gradually becoming a serious concern to our environment and our planet as a whole. The nature provided by god has a special attraction and beautifies the mind of human.

What we have done in our home to save the energy.

Things as simple as using a fluorescent light bulb over an incandescent light bulb can preserve energy. By saving energy, it will eliminate a ton of carbon dioxide pollution that is released into the air. Not only your saving the energy, you are saving your electricity bills also.

Please avoid printing as long as it is not required to print. This is what I used to inform my pals everyday and used to tell them save the environment for your next generation.

Please don’t cut trees and save the planet. It is easy to cut a tree which is grown and please think the pain and efforts that are required to plant and to make the tree grow. If you cut one tree try to plant 3 and try to make it grow.

It is like “An adopted kid will be given utmost care by the guardian and the kid grows with them for 20 years and actual parent snatching the child from the adopted parents.”  Cutting a tree is more than snatching the child. It is like a stealing others property. We are not only stealing, we are trying to kill our future.

When we cut the trees, we miss so many good things in the environment. Nature gives the pleasing effect when we are in deep stress and it cools the mind to great extent. When we travel, we miss the shadow.  Unknowingly pollutions were controlled by the nature. By cutting the trees, we spoiled the earth, now it looks not like a healthy place and soon it will become an non-living place.

I have heard that the place where I studied (Uthiramerur) was so rich in saving the water resources and the Chengalpat district in Tamil nadu has got 1000 lakes. I doubt how many of it are still there as lakes and how many are being sold as lands. We know how many small lakes in and around Chennai city has got transferred to huge buildings.  Most of the areas where we used to save the rain water in my area have been changed to buildings and colonies.

Monsoon in Chennai is not that great compared to other cities or other states and we know the problem of water scarcity.

All the reservoirs, lakes and ponds have been destroyed and have become high rising towers…. How can we feel that we will be able to give a beautiful earth for our next generation.

We are concerned only in the producing of our next generation whereas we are not concerned to give them a healthy atmosphere with natural resources.

Driving to work in the morning is a big example of pollution. When we get stuck in the traffic, how long does your vehicles stay idle on the road, releasing it’s pollution into the air?

Pollution emitted from cars, trucks, buses are another great aspect which we need to think a lot and do what we can do to save the environment. Especially our government buses and Lorries almost in all the cities cause heavy pollution. Please help in preserving the planet.

There is no room to wait for tomorrow to begin to save the earth because the future is in our hands. Even if you don’t think as your responsibility to save the earth, at least be a selfish person to save the environment for your son/daughter is my request to all my fellow people.

All it takes is a little effort from everyone in the world to save the future of the planet from the horrific consequences global warming could potentially what we have seen like melting of glaciers, water shortages, climate changes, rising sea levels, Tsunami threats, heavy rain, drought in some area are all because of our carelessness.


 Saving the environment is the top priority for every individual, save it, for your tomorrow.

Don’t print all your junk mails, forwarded emails or anything which can be read by you in your computer itself. Try to recycle the papers, most of the time, try to use it double sided, if not try to recycle it.

Try to create a e-documents to save the environment instead of having the print outs as legal documents.

 Don’t switch on all the lights when there is enough light in the room.

 Use the nature power of the sun, wind, water to generate electricity,

 Don’t use excessive heaters during summer. Try to minimize the utilization of the Air-conditioners. Keep the air filters clean in the AC unit.

 Unplugging  all the electronic devices, which are not in use.

 If you are a slave of your work, , reduce the working hours which helps in global warming. If at all you work till late evenings/nights, try to switch off the lights which are not required.

Take a brisk walk instead of driving.

Preserve energy by using the car pooling is one of the important way by which you get time to socialize as well as to conserve energy.

 Most importantly, Plant trees